Sunday, June 21, 2009

'Superhero' fathers climb cranes













Two men from the group New Fathers 4 Justice (NF4J) have staged a Father's Day protest by climbing cranes dressed as Banana Man and Captain America.

David Hodge and Sean Wheeler scaled the cranes beside Newport Leisure Centre in south Wales at 0700 BST on Sunday to highlight fathers' rights.

Mr Hodge came back down at around 1000 BST and Mr Wheeler followed at 1045 BST and both were arrested by police.

Matthew Starmore from NF4J said both wanted changes in the law.

Mr Hodge, who was dressed as Captain America, had been apart from his three children for 15 years, said Mr Starmore.

"He's not been a part of their growing up and he's gone through a great deal of psychological trauma because of it," he said.

Mr Wheeler broke up with his partner last year and has full access to his son but decided to protest because he feels so strongly that the justice system is unfair, said Mr Starmore.

He said he did not know what they had been arrested for but suspected it was for trespass.

He said both men were taken to Newport central police station.

Gwent Police sent officers to the scene to ensure the safety of the protestors and the public, they said.

Traffic diversions were put into place.

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/2/hi/uk_news/wales/8111434.stm

Published: 2009/06/21 16:52:01 GMT

© BBC MMIX

Why men and dad's are shown as Buffoons in media commercials and TV Shows

Even though it is men who have invented almost every important thing since the dawn of time, explored and discovered every corner of our planet and beyond, have fought most every war and died to give every person freedom where it exists we are in a state of time where it is fine to treat us as trash. Why? Because we are too "manly" to fight back. We, as we do with Domestic Violence and emotional abuse, perpetrated on us by females "suck it up." We are our own worst enemy. It is beginning to be heard though as this column in the National Post attests. One of our own Fathers Rights Advocates, Don Dymond, is quoted.

What is the reason why ad agencies and TV producers do this to men. It sells - why else. Did you know that women make about 90% of the buying decisions? Whose fault is that? We men are good delegators but it comes at a price. Advertising agencies and TV producers target the buyers of products and to do this they denigrate men and praise women. It is so patronizingly simple. Make the woman look good and she will dutifully believe it and purchase the product.

Its time for more men like Don Dymond and Jeremy Swanson to stand up and tell these folks we will boycott their products and not allow them into our homes. Paper towels can bio degrade in the humus out back just nicely and after a one time of laying down the law about appropriate purchases you can be assured they will not be show up again in a home where a man is resident. MJM


National Post

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Presented by

Jeer old dad

When it comes to television advertising, it's open season on fathers

Mary Vallis, National Post

In commercial after commercial on TV, the image of the modern husband and father is one of the buffoon -- trapped in a shed he built without doors, staring blankly at spilled juice, gorging on dog cookies until his ever-capable wife comes to the rescue.

Such ads are a mainstay because they work: They make viewers laugh, and they sell. And, also, critics argue, because such stereotyping remains socially acceptable.

"WASP men are the greatest target in advertising. The reason I say that is they are the only safe target in advertising," said Terry O'Reilly of Pirate Toronto, a leading audio advertising firm, and host of The Age of Persuasion, a CBC radio show.

"When you make fun of a white, Anglo-Saxon male, husband, dad, you don't get a single letter of complaint."

In his 30-year career in advertising, Mr. O'Reilly has never received a letter from anybody offended by the gentle fun he pokes at dads.

But in an age when fathers are expected to take on a greater role at home--changing diapers and clipping coupons, while also earning a paycheque -- portrayals of Dad as a bumbling fool are troubling to those who would like to see more equality in the domestic realm.

"It's deeply sexist, but what's even more troubling is that it's invisible as a form of sexism," said Dr. Kerry Daly, who runs the Fatherhood Involvement Research Alliance at the University of Guelph.

"They laugh, and it's funny, so there's the licence to laugh without the concern for the impact that it has. And I think it does have a significant impact, in continuing to reinforce negative behaviours associated with fathering and men's behaviour."

Fathers' rights advocates have begun boycotting companies that run ads they deem offensive. Since 2004, the Advertising Standards Council of Canada, the advertising industry's regulatory agency, has upheld seven complaints against advertisers accused of treating men unfairly.

In one of the cases, a father in Calgary filed a complaint against home-improvement store Rona. The spot showed a female customer lamenting that her husband does not help around the house.

A female salesperson responded, "They're all like that, aren't they?" The advertising council deemed the clerk's comment "disparaging" because it implied all husbands are lazy.

Such depictions of men frustrate Don Dymond, a fathers' rights activist and chemical engineer in Fort St. John, B. C. One night last January, he sat in front of his television and took notes as he watched how often men were portrayed as "smart," or "dumb" or "neutral." Tallying his notes, he concluded the ads portrayed men as dumb five times more often than women.

One of the offenders in his admittedly unscientific survey was Bounty paper towels. In the ad, a man and his son watch spilled liquid seeping toward a rug, as a glass still lays on its side in front of them.

As they debate how many paper towel sheets it will take to clean up the spreading mess (three-or four-sheeter?), Mom capably settles the debate, ripping off one sheet of paper towel and walking over to clean up.

"Once you open your mind to it, and you sit and you watch every single commercial on TV, anybody would start seeing this," Mr. Dymond said. He fears the effect they will have on his young sons. "What message are we sending out? ... If none of this turns around, what do we think it's going to be like in 20 years?"

Alison Thomas, a college professor of sociology in B. C., ponders the same question. Her own husband often cringes when offending ads flash on their television screen.

For years, Prof. Thomas has studied the depiction of parental roles in Mother's Day and Father's Day cards.

Her research, gleaned from studying hundreds of greeting cards, shows that fathers are typically characterized as flatulent, lazy shirkers who are subordinate to their wives and flounder with household tasks. Mothers, on the other hand, are portrayed as always there, always busy and always right.

Such humourous messages could have far-reaching consequences for both genders, Prof. Thomas said.

"It reinforces for women and men alike the idea that this really isn't men's normal home turf, that they're not able to be good at it, and therefore, why bother?" Prof. Thomas said.

"As a feminist, I find that problematic, because while it appears to be empowering women -- saying women are superior, women are supermoms, they can do everything, men can't really do this stuff -- what's the outcome going to be? That women carry on doing it all."

mvallis@nationalpost.com---------

VERIZON ONLINE

A father is helping his daughter do Internet research. "So it's kind of encyclopedia-ish," the father says. "It is an encyclopedia. No ish," his daughter replies, unfazed. The man's wife enters and asks whether he is going to wash the dog. He agrees to the chore, but immediately turns back to the computer, saying he is helping his daughter with a school project. The daughter sends a pleading look to her mother, begging to be left alone. The man's wife calls him away.

FALLSVIEW CASINO

A woman arrives home to hear a buzzing and a squeal from her husband, who is upstairs. She finds him in front of a mirror, tattooing a backward lucky "7" on his chest in the mirror. When she tells him the tattoo is backward, he laughs, shakes his head and says, "No, it' isn't." She widens her eyes, says OK, and leaves the room. Panicked, he turns back to the mirror, in which the image appears the right way. "Phew!" he says.

POLYSPORIN

A man asks his family if they want to go camping. The spot then shifts to a dream sequence of what the mother envisions the trip to be: The husband burns himself on a campfire, sticks his fingers together with marshmallow goo, stumbles on the rocks and hits himself in the face with a canoe paddle. The wife then visualizes herself applying Polysporin to his wounds, smiles and agrees to go. The children cheer.

PEPTO-BISMOL

A woman stroking her dog calls Pepto-Bismol and reports, "I want to know if we're covered. Last night, Rex got into everything ... chips, tapioca, ice cream, leftover moo shu and, of course, dog treats." When the company's clerk says they do not cover dogs, the shot widens to reveal the woman's husband groaning in an easy chair, holding his stomach. "Oh, no, Charlie is my dog. Rex is my husband," she says.

BOUNTY PAPER TOWEL

In the ad, a man and his son sit watching spilled liquid seep towards a rug, as a glass lays on its side in front of them. As they debate how many paper towel sheets it will take to clean up the spreading mess (three-or four-sheeter?), Mom comes in and settles the debate, quickly ripping off one sheet of paper towel and walking over to clean up.

SUBWAY

A father passing by a Subway shop with his family notices a sign for a new sub and asks if he can get one. "Not now, Chris is late for his practice," the wife says, stroking the hair of her son, who is holding a soccer ball. The husband begins to beg and plead with his wife and throws a childlike tantrum, stomping his feet and putting his fingers in his ears while yelling, "I want that Subway sandwich now!" The man's son tells him to grow up. "You grow up!" the husband retorts.

Ads show men as incompetent, childish
National Post, Saturday, June 20, 2009


Reader Discussion Post a Comment

  • MikeMurphy, 08:53 AM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    Even though it is men who have invented almost every important thing, explored and discovered every corner of our planet, have fought most every war and died to for freedom we are treated like trash. Did you know that women make about 90% of the buying decisions? Advertising agencies and TV producers target the buyers of products and to do this they denigrate men and praise women. I am off all of the products listed nor will I buy a Subway item for my children until these ads are gone.

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  • Morum, 10:18 AM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    No, I dont laugh - I think it is disgusting the way men are 'put down' all the time - what happened to respect - I will continue to boycott the products.

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  • KindBigot, 01:37 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    Warning, I am about to violate section 13 of the Human Rights Act. What kind of men are so mortally offended by petty commercial stereotypes? Grow up. Let's not heighten the level of pathetic indignation. Do what men have always done: set an example. Women may look good in pant suits, but unless it's a Kilt, or you seriously get off on it, take off that damn skirt.

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  • Mike from Saskatoon, 02:33 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    This is all part of the result of our societies rabid attack on all things traditional. North American (exc. Mexico) culture was traditionally white anglo-saxon where males dominated, so now it is ONLY ok to attack white Anglo-Saxon males. It was traditionally Christian, and so the only religion that it is acceptable to mock is Christianity. Why is it that such sexism, when targetting women, generates hate crime tribunals, but when it targets men generates nothing but laughter?

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  • nationalposter, 02:37 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    The sexism rampant in the media is just more feminazi social engineering that is destroying Canada and destroying relationships. If men are not respected, they will not act in ways you want them to...The conclusion to the article is correct and works against women in the long run and only engenders contempt between the sexes. "Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say". Read it. Boycott companies that are sexist like RONA and BOUNTY and SUBWAY.

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  • JJRoss1, 03:02 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    Why is Jennifer Lynch et al. not all over this sexist behaviour? Surely somone in her office could file a complaint, after all that is their method of operating.

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  • nationalposter, 03:10 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    I called JACK FM in Calgary when I heard them disrespect dads on the air last week...We must hold the sexist establishment accountable for their unacceptable behaviour. Also, speak out against feminazi supporters who imply you are too sensistive, want you to keep your mouth shut and be silent as they assault your dignity and disrespect you. Don't buy sexist Hallmark cards either. FIGHT BACK.

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  • IanG, 05:10 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    I agree with this story. This trend is a serious problem. We shouldn't have to be defending abuse. We have been told abuse is wrong. It is. Not only when someone doesn't like it. If I can abuse my wife and she doesn't complain, is that O.K?

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  • Denis Pakkala, 08:18 PM EDT · Monday, June 22nd, 2009

    Thank you Mary Vallis for actually writing about this in the national media, although the National Post is probably the least biased against men in the media. It must have been father's day because all of the other 364 days of the year, all we hear about is women's problems and how men are to blame.

Victim Feminists in Calgary know no bounds in raising money on the backs of Fathers


The Victim Feminists involved in the Domestic Violence/Shelter Industry in Calgary demonstrate loudly and without mercy what they think of the 'sanctity' and importance of Fathers Day? It is on Page 6 in the Calgary Sun. Saturday 20th June 2009 and on the 21st, Fathers Day. Isn't this the same newspaper who promotes its sales by featuring scantily clad females. Why would they do that? To attract male readers of course. Do they not think we are sensitive to being slandered on our own special weekend?

Note the largest word is DONATE. Its all about money and even though DV is pretty much equal between genders and mothers in the USA and Australia the greatest predators and killers of children in addition to being the greatest abusers of children in the USA they have no shame in picking Fathers Day as an opportunistic way to get more money? Nothing related to men is sacred after all we are the patriarchy and the oppressors.

From Political Commentator True Blue and Jeremy Swanson:

"Switch Newspapers" Calgary/Alberta activists urge
This below From our Ontario comrade and friend "True Blue" Re; Alberta provincial and federal tax dollars at work -in full glaring colour.('hate advertising'?) Imagine how much that advert cost in er....'government' money? On Fathers Day for Heaven's sake ! !
Surely this is high now time for our politicians to put an end to this funded misandry and put these outrageous hate groups out of business once and for all?
btw, anyone wondering ` how do gender bigots celebrate Fathers Day using our tax dollars ? ' Answer's the usual: with sexist slandering & demonizing of ALL males. Imagine the public reaction if ads were run on Mothers Day warning of the statistically far more probable maternal homicide and injury violence threat to children ??

The following is a recommendation from Jeremy Swanson of Fathers Can with which I concur. The ad promotes misandry on every Father's Special Day.

In consultation this evening it was agreed that this is nothing short of 'hate advertising with further intent to profit'. Activists-especially Alberta activists and supporters are urged to note the media which carried this shameless advert on Fathers Day weekend and consider a boycott of that newspaper. Calgary area and other Alberta FR activists have been in contact and have indicated they are urging activists, supporters, families and all consumers in Calgary and surrounds to switch their daily newspaper from the Calgary Sun to the Calgary Herald and also to take out subscriptions and buy the National Post as their National Daily. They have requested that all activists and supporters spread the word of this boycott.





A Father is For Life, Not Just Conception Condom anyone?

1-888-F4J Canada

Press release

Contact: Kris Titus
Phone: 1-888-345-2262 ext.703

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
June 21, 2009

For Immediate Release June 21, 2009
A Father is For Life, Not Just Conception
Condom anyone?


F4J Fathers 4 Justice Canada is using their website to urge men to use a condom, before they need to call an organization like theirs because they get caught in the FLAW system.

"Men in Canada need to quite literally start protecting themselves from the flawed family law system. They can spend 30 cents now or pay $30,000 or more later in courts costs to see their kids 4 days a month. Dads are just not seen as important," says Kris Titus, National Coordinator of F4J Fathers 4 Justice in Canada.

In the week leading up to Fathers Day there have been so many different interpretations of Dads it’s hard to know what a father is these days, never mind what we think they should be.

Oprah features a single dad with 9 children, the National Post features an article on the importance of sperm in child development, and of course two Fathers 4 Justice campaigners proclaim from Carfax tower in England that “A Father is For Life, Not Just Conception.”

The saying resounds with fathers around the world. Not only does it relay to the public and politicians that fathers have a right to raise their children, it also sends an important message to dads that if you have a child, you should be responsible.

It is this need for a balance between rights and responsibilities behind Federal Bill C-422 to amend the Divorce Act in favor of a presumption of equal parenting upon divorce, introduced by MP Maurice Vellacott, supported by MPs Steven Blaney and Raymonde Folco.

“Right now the focus is on litigation not restoration. Money talks and Dads are forced to walk away because they cannot afford to fight for their children any longer. We need to start asking why they should even have to!” says Kris Titus.

From the perspective of a child, Fathers 4 Justice JR Justice Leaguer with a cause, Katy, truly says it best, “Happy Fathers Day from all the invisible children. Even though some of us don’t know who you are, we still think of you on your special day and about the bonds we would have shared.”

Here’s the link to Katy’s Father’s Day message to all the Fathers and Grandfathers out there who feel like a broken record. http://www.f4jcanada.com/Katy/SaveKaty.html

THIS Fathers day, let’s really think about what Fathers mean to children, to families, and to society and let's give them all the support, love and respect that they deserve.


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Friday, June 19, 2009

The commodification of sperm

Barbara has the uncanny ability to burrow into the thought process of the victim feminist mind and deduce certain inconsistencies. This is clearly one more whereby the very people who sing the loudest in whining glory about being oppressed by the male patriarchy want to reproduce children, without the biodad interfering, and who are the essence of what they say is wrong with the world. Only sperm used from those males who are 5"11" in height is the bare minimum acceptable thank you very much they say.

I've always said this brand of feminism do have "daddy" issues, probably from childhood and are more like children in adult bodies and frankly don't know what they really want. It is an ideolgy but has no sold foundation in fact only mythology.MJM






Barbara Kay

National Post Wednesday, June 17, 2009

http://www.nationalpost.com/todays-paper/story.html?id=1702952


A few months ago I took part in a mock debate whose annual tradition it is to task stand-up comics manques with raising optimal laughs around a deeply trivial theme.


The proposed resolution was "The short man is the better man." I argued this was a wince-inducing subject for the height-challenged male, equivalent to "The fat woman is the better woman," and furthermore a natural temptation to witless ribaldry. My objections falling on deaf ears, including some attached to short men, I manned up for the job as best I could.

Googling desperately, I came upon an informational tidbit that proved excellent (and only slightly ribald) fodder for debate laughs, but also seems an apt take-off point for my yearly Fatherless Day column, namely: Most sperm banks will not accept donations from men who stand under 5' 11" in height.


The sperm-seekers whose demand has produced this height restriction aren't giggly teenagers or desperate housewives addicted to Harlequin romances. They are strong, autonomous, educated, middle class, not-so-young women of ambition with support systems and resources sufficient to the logistical demands of child-rearing.

Whether childless because of sexual orientation, a ticking biological clock aligned with bad luck in the marriage market, or principled misandry, they view their future child's fatherlessness with sanguine confidence and a clear conscience.


Amongst such committed egalitarians in all other gender-related matters, then, logic would suggest a willingness to accept height parity, or at least diversity. So why are these father-cleansing feminists choosing to "mate" with a stereotypically patriarchal symbol of physical dominance?

Because deep inside, they aren't buying the utopian theories they've superficially endorsed. Freed from the hassle of meeting Mr. Right, and at liberty to conjure up Mr. Right DNA, even women mate-free by choice want to perpetuate via their future child's hologram sire the same symbols of male strength and protectiveness women have prized since time immemorial. Their decision to " disappear" their child's father says manliness isn't important; their atavistically-driven entries on the sperm bank checklist say it is.


We now take for granted the technology of alternate reproductive initiatives that marginalize men's contribution to the family, and by extension to society. But we shouldn't. Every child born with only half an identity -- the mother's --is a reproach to our decision, which began with the advent of the birth control pill in 1959, to privilege the sexual and reproductive rights of adults over the rights of children. For "adults," read "women."


Men took their cues from women. They soon internalized the feminist message that they had many responsibilities as fathers, but unlike mothers no natural rights, a rubric borne out in higher court judgments and countless custody narratives. Men's biological and social value, and their relationship to their issue, has for some time been contingent on women's wishes and perceived needs.


And yet countless studies confirm the opposite of what the very existence of sperm banks imply. Biological fathership matters. Fatherlessness figures disproportionately in every anti-social behaviour from school dropout to sexual pathology to hard criminality. A non-biological father figure in the home is the greatest indicator for child abuse.


There's no secret to healthy communities. Marriage is the key. It takes the same boring, bourgeois values and domestic strategies today, often referred to amongst cultural observers as "the plan" -- education first, then a job, then marriage and only then children -- as it did in 1950 to produce (on the whole, no personal anecdotes, please) secure, successful children.


Poverty is not the issue, as ideologues continue to insist. The same bourgeois values send many poor, but culturally traditional immigrants' children soaring to peaks of achievement.


The irony is that the theorists doling out the Kool-Aid aren't drinking it themselves. Marriage rates are going up amongst the educated middle class, and down amongst the uneducated, unskilled and unmotivated -- those least equipped to compensate for the negative effects of fatherlessness on children.


The commodification of sperm is a particularly hypocritical blot on the social landscape. Donor recipients cheat their children with society's blessing by mimicking the plan. They get their education and job first, but skip the crucial marriage part. Finally they parachute their "family" into stable, aspirational environments sustained by two-parent families. Sperm-donor mothers thus effectively freeload from the harvest sown by the very bourgeois constraints they exempted themselves from in their children's creation.


Sperm banks opened a Pandora's box. The inevitable coming debate: "The cloned child is the better child." Comedians may raise laughter from this not-so-trivial subject, but fathers -not so much.


bkay@videotron.ca


Thursday, June 18, 2009

Woman burns toddler, gets house arrest ~ Is this a serious Gender Discount



Another example of the corruption in the judiciary. If this had been a man could you imagine he would get house arrest? Can you think of the out cry if a male was selected for house arrest? This boils down to a vacation at home for child abuse beyond the pale. Shame on you Justice Helen MacLeod-Beliveau you are a disgrace and a sorry example of the Canadian Judiciary for handing out such egregious gender discounts. This is far too common in family and criminal courts. See my email to the judge following the article. Does the following statement sound like something Obama's recent appointee to the USA Supreme Court. She is a Latino female named Sotomayer. So now we get Judges who think they can make better decisions than men because of their gender, environment or race. What drivel. The Crown Attorney, defense lawyer and Judge were female. Is this the kind of decision making we can expect from feminist activist judges and lawyers? MJM

Treasurer and Justice MacLeod BeliveauAt the reception following the event, Justice MacLeod Beliveau reiterated this sentiment, saying that greater diversity on the bench means that different life experiences are brought to the decisions that are made. "We are not a homogeneous society and we need to have increased sensitivity to the diverse experiences of those before the courts," she said.













By Tom Brodbeck
tom.brodbeck@sunmedia.ca

The Winnipeg Sun


WINNIPEG -- An Ontario judge has handed down one of the most egregious sentences I've seen in a long time to a woman who forced a toddler's hands into a pot of boiling water, causing fourth-degree burns.

For that, Superior Court Justice Helen MacLeod-Beliveau is the latest winner of the Eight-Ball Award, handed out in this column to highlight some of the worst perversions of justice in our court system.

As perversions go, this one falls on the severe side of the judicial spectrum, bringing not only Canada's administration of justice into disrepute but also plunging this country's justice system to a new low.

Unimaginable agony

Magan Marie Muir, now 24, was supposed to be caring for two children in 1997. Instead, she took the hands of two-year-old Damon Reddom Stone -- her then-boyfriend's son -- and plunged them mercilessly into a pot of boiling water.

The toddler's hands were immersed to his wrists, causing second, third and fourth-degree burns and weeks of unimaginable agony and pain.

Muir lied to police when they investigated the burns, which hospital officials immediately recognized as a deliberate act to cause serious injury.

Muir told police Damon was burned after he climbed up to the stove and knocked a pot of boiling water to the floor.

Unspeakable crime

Despite her unspeakable crime and the fact she attempted to obstruct justice by lying to police, Muir was given a conditional sentence -- or house arrest -- of 18 months by Justice MacLeod-Beliveau in a Belleville, Ont. courtroom Tuesday.

MacLeod-Beliveau argued during sentencing it has been proven jail time in cases like these is not an effective deterrent.

She also said Muir is not a danger to the public.

Not a danger to the public? She took a two-year-old's hands and dunked them into a pot of boiling water.

If that's not a danger to the public, I don't know what is.

MacLeod-Beliveau obviously didn't give much -- if any -- weight to the Criminal Code's sentencing principles of deterrence, denunciation and the overriding principle sentences must be proportionate to the gravity of a crime.

If she did, it would have been impossible for her to accept the joint-sentencing recommendation of the Crown and the defence, which she could have rejected.

But she didn't.

Instead, she said Muir's crime was simply out of character.

How thoughtful. Did the judge hand Muir a bouquet of flowers, too?

MacLeod-Beliveau also said no sentence could restore Damon's hands.

Yeah, we know that. We're not looking for a sentence that's going to restore his hands. That's political rhetoric, the kind of pablum soft, left-leaning judges regurgitate to support their pathetic sentences.

No, Justice MacLeod-Beliveau, we're looking for a sentence that follows the sentencing principles as set out in the Criminal Code.

We're looking for a sentence that denounces this crime and denounces it loudly.

We're looking for specific and general deterrence.

And most of all, we're looking for a fit sentence that is proportionate to the gravity of the crime.

That's what the law says you're supposed to do.

Unfortunately, MacLeod-Beliveau failed miserably on all counts.

She failed to ensure justice was served in this case and she contributed significantly to the rapid erosion of public confidence in our justice system.

Enjoy the Eight-Ball, MacLeaod-Beliveau. I'm sure it will look swell on your mantle.


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Dear Judge:

Re: http://www.winnipegsun.com/news/2009/06/18/9838186.html#/news/winnipeg/2009/06/18/pf-9835956.html

Your recent decision is another example of the appearance of corruption in the judiciary.We just got rid of the Political Hack and former colleague of yours Paul Cosgrove. If this had been a man could you imagine he would get house arrest? Can you think of the outcry if you gave a male house arrest under similar circumstances? This boils down to a vacation at home for child abuse beyond the pale. It matters not there was collusion between the Crown and defence. We have seen what Crowns are capable of with the recent revelations in Barrie and Windsor of both corruption within the sphere of the Ontario Attorney General and participating Police Forces.

Shame on you Justice Helen MacLeod-Beliveau you are a disgrace and a sorry example of the Canadian Judiciary for handing out such egregious gender discounts. This is far too common in family and criminal courts. I pity any man who has to face you in family court. It is clear where your sympathies come to rest.

You have made a major contribution to the continuing loss of confidence in the administration of justice in our country.



Mike Murphy

Fran Lebowitz - "Life is something to do when you can't get to sleep."
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Damon Reddom, pictured the day after his hands were dipped into a pot of boiling water by a 24-year-old city woman. The woman, who was handed a conditional sentence, has since moved to St. Catharine’s to finish serving her home-based sentence.

Submitted photo





Mom seeking justice for child victims

Posted By Jeremy Ashley The Intelligencer

Posted 4 days ago


At times, Damon Reddom Stone is a haunted four-year-old.

Sitting on his mother’s lap Monday, he ran his hands over her fingertips.

“He said, ‘Mommy, I wish I had normal hands like you,’” recalled Tina Reddom this week.

Every so often, she said, her youngster’s mind drifts back to the morning of Oct. 16, 2007 when a 24-year-old city woman — in a fit of supposed rage — forced his tiny hands into a pot of boiling water in the Applewood Drive apartment she shared with her then-boyfriend, Damon's father.

Damon, who was two at the time, sustained serious burns and will require several surgeries, skin grafts and therapy to treat the wounds.

After pleading guilty to assault causing bodily harm earlier this year, Magan Muir agreed to an 18-month sentence for the crime.

The first half of Muir’s sentence is being spent under house arrest, while during the remaining nine months she will be allowed out into the community under certain conditions.

Like many others in the community, the boy’s mother remains outraged at the sentence, charging her son was shortchanged by the criminal justice system.

Earlier this month, another blow was dealt to the Reddom family — Muir was granted a request to move to St. Catharines to finish serving her sentence while living with family.

“How can she choose where she is going to live? She should be serving her sentence in the community where she committed this crime, I think. And, the last time I checked, an inmate in a prison couldn’t say ‘Hey, I don’t like it here, can I move to another prison’. It doesn’t make sense to me, and quite frankly, pisses me off.

“Damon didn’t get an ounce of justice, not one stitch of justice.”

Reddom said her son, who is the youngest of two, will be dealing with his injuries for years to come — despite the long road he’s already walked during the past 20 months.

After the incident, Reddom took three months off work to ensure Damon received the best care, which included hours of daily physiotherapy and bandage changes.

“It was hell, to say the least, but at least he can use his hands ... and I am very grateful for that. I thank God every single day because Damon could have lost use of his hands because of his burns.”

During his visits to Sick Kids hospital in Toronto, Damon visits with a number of specialists, including psychiatrists and therapists.

The youngster is a trooper: doctors are impressed with his recovery from both the physical and mental trauma of the incident.

“I doubt myself a lot when it comes to helping with Damon’s healing process,” Tina said. “Am I doing the physiotherapy right, or am I changing his bandages properly ... so for him to be doing as well as he’s doing is such good news for us.”

Ensuring her two children are not consumed with bitterness about the family’s situation is a daily struggle.

“I tell you that some of the thoughts and the feelings that I’ve had in the last 20 months would land me behind bars for a very long time. But I look at my boy Damon everyday and he needs me more now than ever ... and what kind of mother would I be if I put myself at her (Muir’s) level? I’m above that — anyone who can do that to a child is scum on the bottom of the river.”

At the same time, Reddom feels as though she is failing her son — an emotion that has sparked an online frenzy through the social networking website Facebook.

“Our kids are our future and if the justice system isn’t going to protect them, who will? As a community and country, we need to stand up and tell our government that change is needed.”

To date, more than 8,200 people are members of her group ‘Where is the justice?’ — an element that Reddom hopes to harness into a special event to raise awareness about abused children and the “failings of the justice system” in the hopes of initiating change.

For instance, the Canadian justice system is “a very sexist,” she said, noting that in her opinion, a man would have received a much harsher sentence for the same crime.

“This event will be to raise awareness about how this is happening to our kids everyday — children are getting abused everyday and people are getting away with it.

“I would go to jail longer if I were to rob a convenience store. A person takes away the innocence of a child and they don’t even serve any time in jail and get to walk amongst us and our children.”

Specific details of the awareness walk, which is expected to be held in Belleville in late summer, have yet to be worked out, she said.

“Something has to give there, something has to change. I can’t get Damon the justice he deserves, but maybe I can for the next baby. At the end of the day, I want to be able to stand up and say I helped get that change because our babies deserve better.

“And I’m not going to stop until I’m heard, and I tell you, I’ve got about 60 years left on my life and God granted me a big mouth for a reason and I’m going to keep going until somebody listens.”

jashley@intelligencer.ca