Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Dave Nash - Running for the kids - Hope, BC



Running for the kids

Published: June 23, 2010 2:00 PM

Dave Nash is running across Canada to gain support and awareness for an Equal Shared Parenting Private Members Bill, Bill C-422. Bill C-422 would reform the Divorce Act, and help put children’s best interests forward by making Equal Shared Parenting the normative determination by courts dealing with situations of divorce involving children. For more information, you can visit his website crosscanadarunforthechildren.com. Michelle Gazely photo

http://www.bclocalnews.com/fraser_valley/hopestandard/lifestyles/97011004.html

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Runner crossing Canada for kids’ right to parents

Dave Nash is on a trek across Canada to support Mr. Vellacott's PMB C-422 for equal shared parenting in Canada's federal parliament.  He is currently in Winnipeg.  I had sent the following note on facebook and would want anyone in the Thunder Bay - Sault Ste. Marie area who can be involved to get in touch with me to see if efforts can be coordinated.



"It's about 1400 km's from there to Sault Ste. Marie, which at your current pace (an impressive 60 km's per day) puts you in the Soo about Aug. 4. I will be in MN around then but as you get closer and the day is more firm I will send out releases to local media, including Marathon, (300 KM's south of Thunder Bay) which has a radio station and ... See moreNewspaper to let them know. I will also see if a local Hotel in the Soo will provide accommodation and some meals . One of the owners is a bicycle marathoner having cycled from Egypt to South Africa. Is there anyone else in the Marathon - Soo area who can provide ground support? Its a lot of territory. 700 Km's Thunder Bay to the Soo through rugged wilderness with few communities in between. South of the Soo to Sudbury its just over 300 KM's and far less rugged with more smaller communities."


There is no cell phone service for anyone using GSM devices between the Sault and Thunder Bay so communication for Dave, other than hardline will be spotty. I note he uses an Iphone from his Facebook postings, which means GSM - as no CDMA (Bell/Telus)  service can use this cell. I use the new Bell GSM network on my iPhone but it terminates just a few Km's north of the Soo. South of the Sault it is better and should be usable most of the distance to Sudbury.  I have travelled the Sault-Thunder Bay route more times than I care to remember and it is rugged, lonely and with few communities.  It would be important to have ground support. Cross country bicycle trekkers describe the hills between Thunder Bay and Marathon as difficult as in the mountains. They are steep and frequent.


It is about 700 KM's from Winnipeg to Thunder Bay and the same from the latter to the Soo. Another 700 km's puts you to the 401 highway in Toronto but Dave will go Highway 17 through Ottawa which adds about 790 km's  From where he is now to Ottawa will be close to 2,200 km's, slightly more than his current distance from the start to Winnipeg. They say it takes forever to get across Ontario compared to other Provinces. It most assuredly does.


Let me know if there are any hardy souls able to help in this (Thunder Bay-Soo)  difficult and long stretch of Ontario.MJM

Last Updated: July 12, 2010 10:05pm

An Ontario man is pounding the pavement from coast to coast to highlight the plight of non-custodial parents and their kids.

David Nash, 38, of Guelph, Ont., started his Cross Canada Run For The Children June 1 in Victoria and had made it to Winnipeg by Monday.

Nash had targeted the Guinness record of 72 days for crossing Canada on foot, a goal he always knew was near impossible, but said it’s really all about the symbolism of the number.

“The reason I picked it was to make a political statement about the failings of the system,” Nash said. “Seventy-two days is what a child will get with their non-custodial parent each year, and that’s if they’re fortunate.”

Nash said he hopes his journey can help spark change to Canada’s laws which he said pit parents against one another. Nash has shared custody of his nine-year-old son Mason with his ex-wife.

“We need to have a system in place that encourages divorcing parents to work together to put an equal-parenting arrangement together for the best interest of their children,” he said. “We currently have a system that encourages parents to fight one another for the custody of their children and it’s all to the detriment of the children.”

Nash said a private member’s bill is currently before Parliament that would amend the Divorce Act with the presumption of equal parenting. He said he hopes his trek will push politicians to act.

“Most Canadians don’t realize how bad the system is until they’ve been put through it,” Nash said.
“I’m not doing this for fathers’ rights, I’m doing this for children’s rights. I believe children deserve the right to have an equal relationship with both of their parents.”

Nash said he’s received plenty of aid and encouragement from supporters and communities along the way as he’s averaged about 60 kilometres per day.

For more information, visit Nash’s website crosscanada-runforthechildren.com.

http://www.winnipegsun.com/news/canada/2010/07/12/14693036.html

Sunday, July 11, 2010

The World Cup Abuse Nightmare and Mendacity in the UK Government

The following story is instructive in that putting a feminist in the role of Chief Feminist of the UK, won't change anything whether you are a socialist like Harriot "the harridan" Harmon or a "so called" conservative like  Theresa Mary May, the current UK Home Secretary  and  Minister for Women and Equality. Feminist ideology trumps political affiliation. May is a former speaker at The Fawcett Society a feminist organization who uses misleading statistics to highlight false comparisons between the genders.

The hard line feminist bureaucrats in the British Women and Equality office seemed  to have convinced the new Minister to go along with the ruse followed dutifully by eunuch's in the Police and elsewhere. Similar things occur in the Canadian Status of Women agency and if the end justifies the means it does not preclude lying.  I'm surprised the latter didn't produce a report on a massive outbreak of DV when Canada's hockey team  beat the USA for Olympic gold in February this year. It would not have been true but heck think of the headlines in the MSM and all the gullible corporations and citizens who sop this up and assuage their guilt by donating money to DV shelters. Its great marketing and that is what it is all about - women as victims, men as brutes - and more importantly money. MJM














    
Christina Hoff Sommers 

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The World Cup Abuse Nightmare 

Myths about domestic violence not only libel the vast majority of men; they also put truly at-risk women at greater risk.
 
Do brutal attacks on women by their husbands or boyfriends surge during the World Cup? According to a May 25 press release by England’s Association of Chief Police Officers (ACPO), “cases of domestic abuse increase by nearly 30% on England match days.” The shocking 30 percent figure was from a study prepared and publicized by the British Home Office. Determined to stem the assaults, officials flooded pubs and the airwaves with graphic warnings. “Don’t let the World Cup leave its mark on you,” warned a poster distributed by the West Yorkshire Police. It showed the bare back of a cowering woman marked by bruises, cuts, and the imprint of a man’s shoe. News stories with titles such as “Women’s World Cup Abuse Nightmare” informed women that the games could uncover, “for the first time, a darker side to their partner.”

Many Americans will recall a similar scare surrounding Super Bowl Sunday in January 1993. Newspapers and television networks reported that the incidence of domestic violence increased by 40 percent during the annual football classic. Journalists were soon talking of a “day of dread” and referring to the game as the “abuse bowl.” Experts held forth on how male viewers, intoxicated and pumped up with testosterone, could “explode like mad linemen, leaving girlfriends, wives, and children beaten.” During its telecast, NBC ran a public-service announcement urging men to remain calm during the game and reminding them they could go to jail if they attacked their wives.

In that roiling sea of media credulity, Ken Ringle, a reporter at the Washington Post, did something no other reporter thought to do: He checked the facts. He quickly discovered that there was no evidence linking football and domestic violence. The source for the 40 percent factoid was a mistaken remark by an activist at a press conference in Pasadena, Calif. Today, what has come to be known as the
Super Bull Sunday hoax, is a staple in discussions of urban legends. Could the World Cup Abuse Nightmare be a copycat fraud?

“A stunt based on misleading figures,” is the verdict of BBC legal commentator Joshua Rozenberg and producer Wesley Stephenson. They recently investigated the alleged link between the televised World Cup games and violence in the home for their weekly program Law in Action. On June 22 — day twelve of the 2010 World Cup — they aired the story. It included an interview with a prominent Cambridge University statistician, Sheila Bird, whom they had asked to review the Home Office study and its finding of a 30 percent increase in domestic abuse. She found it to be so amateurish and riddled with flaws that it could not be taken seriously. The 30 percent claim was based on a cherry-picked sample of police districts; it failed to correct for seasonal differences and essentially ignored match days that showed little or no increase in domestic violence. Professor Bird also noted that improved police practices can lead to increased reports of violence but do not necessarily indicate more violence. A telltale sign that something is amiss in the Home Office is that it also disseminates the claim that “one in four women will be a victim of domestic violence.” That impossibly high figure may be the result of a rather expansive definition of “domestic violence” — which includes not only physical and sexual violence but also emotional and “financial” abuse.


The BBC Law in Action program also unearthed a serious study by the London Metropolitan Police Authority that contradicted the “official” 30 percent finding. But thanks to a sensational media campaign sanctioned by the Home Office, the reasonable and credible findings of the Metropolitan Police went unnoticed.

On June 27, England suffered a humiliating defeat by Germany. A few days later, news stories reported a “shocking” surge in domestic assaults in some districts. According to the Telegraph, “Kent police said it witnessed a 400 percent rise in domestic abuse” on the day of the loss. But as the BBC investigators warned, percentages can be misleading when the raw numbers are small. There were 26 incidents in south Kent on the day of the rout, compared to an average weekend total of six. Newspapers also carried stories of a spike in Lancashire reported by an ambulance service. But, according to Detective Inspector Derry Crorken of the local police force’s public protection unit, “We have not seen a big rise in callouts during or after the football compared to other weekends.” For the time being, excited reports by British journalists on this topic should be discounted heavily.

In the past 17 years, despite occasional efforts, no one has been able to link the Super Bowl to domestic battery in the United States. A major study in 2007, by two University of Alabama researchers, examined 2,387 crisis-call records over a three-year period. The authors also interviewed abused women and shelter staff. Their conclusion: “The widely held belief that more women seek shelter during ‘drinking holidays’ such as New Year’s and the Super Bowl was unsubstantiated.”

Rozenberg and Stephenson interviewed me for their BBC story because I had written about the U.S. Super Bowl fiction in my 1994 book, Who Stole Feminism? Why, they wanted to know, do such myths have such strong appeal? It is easy to understand why the American version resonated so powerfully in 1993. At the time, the “women are victims, men are brutes” style of feminism was all the rage. Many middle-class women — whose chances of being assaulted by their husbands were close to zero — were riveted by ominous pronouncements like this one from Gloria Steinem’s 1992 bestseller, Revolution from Within: “The most dangerous situation for a woman is not an unknown man on the street, or even the enemy in wartime, but a husband or lover in the isolation of their own home.” It was in 1993 that the National Coalition against Domestic Violence circulated a brochure claiming that half of married American women would face violence from their mate and that “more than a third are battered repeatedly every year.” The Super Bowl story was a handy bandwagon for this popular but twisted creed.

The motives behind the British scare are harder to fathom. It was not the work of feminist hard-liners but rather of a network of government bureaucrats, social-service workers, police personnel, and public officials — including the new home secretary, Theresa May. History offers many examples of depraved societies pretending they are better than they really are. England, an enlightened and humane country, is perversely fascinated by stories that falsely depict its citizens as corrupt and degenerate. Those behind the exaggerated crisis are not going to recant in the face of mere facts. When the BBC investigators presented Carmel Napier, the deputy chief constable of Gwent, with the evidence that the study she and her colleagues were promoting was specious, she replied: “If it has saved lives, then it is worth it.”


In fact, it does harm. The BBC’s Law in Action also interviewed Davina James-Hanman, director of the AVA (Against Violence & Abuse) Project. She was concerned that the World Cup scare could place truly at-risk women in harm’s way. She explained that a woman in a violent relationship is often eager to blame external factors as the cause of the attacks. “It worries me that their safety planning may be affected by this focus on the World Cup . . . that she’s maybe getting the message that if she just hangs on until the World Cup is over everything will be okay.” Surely women at risk for violence are best served by truth. By allowing sensational half-truths and untruths to flourish, officials not only channel scarce resources into dubious programs, they also diminish public trust.

There is another serious reason why countries such as the United States and Britain should not exaggerate the victim status of their female citizens. Horrific and systematic abuses of women occurring in other parts of the world demand our attention. In May, while British officials were preparing for the “expected” explosion of domestic battery from World Cup watchers, the Islamic Republic of Iran was granted a seat on the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. Human-rights activists protested, pointing out Iran’s appalling record of tyranny, cruelty, and injustice to women. Iranian president Mahmoud Ahmadinejad shot back that Iranian women are far better off than women in the West. “What is left of women’s dignity in the West?” he asked. “Is there any love and kindness left?” He then declared that in Europe almost 70 percent of housewives are beaten by their husbands.

That was a self-serving lie. British women, with few exceptions, are safe and free. Iranian women are not. But the lurid posters of women’s beaten bodies and bloody T-shirts (one with the legend “strikeher” emblazoned above a big zero) and bogus statistics give wings to such lies. How that helps women coping with real abuse in Britain, the United States, or anywhere else remains a mystery.

http://article.nationalreview.com/437888/the-world-cup-abuse-nightmare/christina-hoff-sommers

— Christina Hoff Sommers is a resident scholar at the American Enterprise Institute. She is the author of Who Stole Feminism? and The War against Boys, and the editor of The Science on Women and Science.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Father of murdered Abbotsford girl: 'Death is too good' for alleged killer


Peter James Wilson, 
29, is being held in Mason County Jail for investigation of first-degree
 murder of his five-year-old stepdaughter Clare Louise Shelswell at the 
family's rented vacation home.

Peter James Wilson, 29, is being held in Mason County Jail for investigation of first-degree murder of his five-year-old stepdaughter Clare Louise Shelswell at the family's rented vacation home.

Photograph by: Screengrab, KOMOTV

VANCOUVER - The last time James Shelswell saw his daughter Clare was two years ago in Vancouver.
Clare, Shelswell and his other daughter Suzanna, who was six at the time, had gone to the Vancouver Aquarium, followed by a trip to McDonald's.

“The kids were having a great time,” Shelswell, 48, told The Vancouver Sun from his Calgary home Tuesday night. “We saw all the fish and goofed around. Even the lady at McDonald’s commented, ‘Jeez, you’ve got good kids.’”

That visit was only the fifth in five years, Shelswell said, after his wife Sarah Wilson divorced him and moved to Abbotsford from Calgary with the girls, limiting his visits.

Clare was only four months old at the time.

“Every time I phoned, it was a big hassle to see them,” he said. “I just kept paying everything. It burns me; it just burns me. You’re paying all this money and you can’t see your kids. I should have hired a lawyer, but I’ve only got so much money.”

Clare died over the weekend while vacationing with family at Lake Cushman in Washington state, about 200 kilometres south of Vancouver.

Her stepfather, Peter James Wilson, 29, was arrested Sunday evening in Hoodsport, Wash., on the Olympic Peninsula after police arrived at a two-storey rented vacation cabin to discover the little girl's throat had been slashed.

According to a statement released by the Mason County Sheriff's Office, Wilson had told a detective he killed his stepdaughter with a knife he found on the kitchen counter after fighting with his wife about disciplining the children.

Shelswell said he found out about the grisly murder through his brother, who learned of it from media reports and called him from his home in Abbotsford at 6:30 a.m. Tuesday.

“[Sarah Wilson] didn’t call me, the Americans didn’t call me. The last name of the kids is Shelswell. They could have called me; I am the father,” he said angrily.

Shelswell had only met his ex-wife's new husband a couple times and did not know about his bipolar disorder, or that he was on medication.

Shelswell said “death is too good” for Peter Wilson and hopes he “suffers for the next 20 years.”
“What goes around comes around, and I hope it comes around. He should be made to suffer. Somebody who does that to a five-year-old girl?”

He is “devastated” he was not able to protect Clare.

“You’re not supposed to outlive your kids,” he said, sobbing. “You’re supposed to be gone before them.

That’s the way it should be, you know? You’re 80, they’re 40.”

awoo@vancouversun.com
With files from Darah Hansen

Monday, July 5, 2010

Are There More Girl Geniuses?

It is of great interest a female, in the following article, is discussing the education system and creating greater awareness of boys falling further and further behind. Thank goodness for brave women like Christina Hoff Summers, who are prepared to take the heat from the outraged and screeching tax supported feminists. The feminization of testing, our schools operational policies, and the priority given by a preponderance of female teachers to feminine characteristics is at the root of it. In Ontario female teachers outnumber males in an over 4-1 ratio in the 20-30 age cohort.MJM

Thursday, July 1, 2010
American boys across the ability spectrum and in all age groups have become second-class citizens in the nation’s schools. Just visit New York City.

Boys are falling behind girls in our nation’s schools. Fewer boys graduate from high school, and boys are less likely to attend college. One education expert has quipped that if current trends continue, the last male will graduate from college in 2068. A recent story in the New York Times carried more bad news for boys. A significant gender gap favoring girls has arisen inside New York City’s gifted and talented programs. According to the article, “Around the city, the current crop of gifted kindergartners…is 56 percent girls, and in the 2008-9 year, 55 percent were girls.” In some of the most elite programs, almost three-fifths of the prodigies are girls. Could it be that girls are simply smarter than boys?
A fair selection process should produce more boys than girls in a gifted and talented program.
In fact, males and females appear equally intelligent, on average. But on standardized intelligence tests, more males than females get off-the-chart test scores—in both directions. The greater variance of males on intelligence tests is one of the best-established findings in psychometric literature. More males are mentally deficient, and more are freakishly brilliant. The difference in variation isn't huge, but it is large enough and consistent enough that a fair selection process should produce more boys than girls in a gifted and talented program.

To give just one example, here is what a group of Scottish psychologists found in 2002 when they analyzed the results of IQ tests given to nearly all 11-year-olds in Scotland in 1932.

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This study, one of the most comprehensive in the literature, shows that for the highest IQ score of 140, boys outnumbered girls 277 to 203 (or 57.7 percent boys vs. 42.3 percent girls), and for the lowest IQ boys also outnumber girls, by 188 to 133 (or 58.6 percent boys vs. 41.4 percent girls).
Little appears to have changed in the cognitive profile of men and women since prewar Scotland. Those with IQs above 140 or below 70 are still very much the exception. They can be male or female, but males have a statistically significant edge at both extremes. How did things get turned around with New York City’s kindergarteners?

Here is how the Times describes playtime for a group of five-year-old braniacs:
Four of the boys went to the corner to build an intricate highway structure and a factory from wooden blocks, while two others built trucks. One girl helped them, by creating signs on Post-its to stick on the buildings. Another kindergarten girl, Tamar Greenberg, stood to announce to the class her own activity, a Hebrew lesson. “We’re moving to the green table because it’s too distracting with the computers” in the back, she told the other children. On a roster, she neatly recorded the names of the three children who joined her for the lesson: Skyler, Isabelle and Bayla. “No boys were interested,” Tamar said.

Gifted boys and girls are just like other children in one respect: in both groups, the girls are more mature, more verbal, and more capable of sitting still. Until a few years ago, admissions directors for New York City’s gifted programs took account of these differences and through a series of tests, interviews, and observations managed to recruit roughly equal numbers of budding engineers and linguists.
The greater variance of males on intelligence tests is one of the best-established findings in psychometric literature. More males are mentally deficient, and more are freakishly brilliant.
But the old practice of taking equal numbers of boys and girls was phased out a few years ago when Mayor Michael Bloomberg and his administration sought to make the application process more fair, open, and uniform. Reforms were needed, because, for many years, admission procedures were haphazard and varied from school to school. Parents who knew how to work the system had a huge advantage. Many average children with assertive parents found their way into the city’s elite programs—and many brilliant but socially disadvantaged children never had a chance. The Bloomberg administration imposed a uniform and transparent admission process so that all applicants (about 15,000 four- and five-year-olds) now take the same two standardized tests. Only children who score in the 90th percentile or above can enter the programs. This approach leaves little room for parental lobbying.
Well-intentioned government officials and educators can disregard boys’ needs and abilities and unwittingly adopt policies detrimental to boys’ well-being.
The reformers believed this open and consistent procedure would yield a more ethnically diverse group of students. So far it has not. It has yielded more girls than boys. As the Times reports (and disgruntled mothers of boys say on websites like UrbanBaby ), the test is “more verbal than other tests” and it plays to girls’ strengths. Boys are especially disadvantaged by the necessity to sit quietly for one hour and focus exclusively on the test. Pre-kindergarten boys with mental abilities three or four standard deviations above the mean have astonishing talents. But as Terry Neu, an expert on gifted boys, told me, sitting still for an extended period of time is not one of them. The capacity to remain seated for a long test does not reliably measure brilliance, but requiring pre-K children to do it is a sure way of securing more places for girls than boys in a gifted program.
The developing gender gap in the gifted programs of New York City does not signal that girls are smarter than boys. Rather, it exemplifies how well-intentioned government officials and educators can disregard boys’ needs and abilities and unwittingly adopt policies detrimental to boys’ well-being. It is a small part of the long story of how American boys across the ability spectrum and in all age groups have become second-class citizens in the nation’s schools.

Christina Hoff Sommers is a resident scholar at the American Enterprise Institute. Her books include The War Against Boys (2000) and The Science on Women and Science (2009).

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Reminder from nature: Boys aren't girls

This is a column bound to be a classic when comparing genders. The Ontario school system is running an over 4-1 female to male teacher ratio in the 20-30 age cohort. This means more trouble for boys as the system further tries to feminize them.  When a part of society becomes unbalanced as do many sectors of our social and educational system bias becomes the norm.  Health, teaching, child protection is largely female. Boys are doing badly in school and its simply due to gender bias by a highly feminized society. If Patriarchy was bad Matriarchy is worse.MJM





Jack and I enter the arena just as the lights go out. We scramble to our seats while Bono hollers about nameless streets over the sound system. Seconds later, the canned music fades and a spotlight shines on a man standing on the arena floor.

"OTTAWA!" he bellows. "Are you ready for a monster spectacular!"

I heard about this show on the radio. Eardrum-shattering, jalopy-crushing monster truck mayhem! I'm not into trucks -- monster or non-monster. But I knew someone who was: my four-year-old son.

Jack loves trucks, motorcycles, airplanes -- anything that moves fast, makes noise and pollutes. He could make engine sounds before he could speak. He would push a toy car across the floor and, through vibrating, spit-flecked lips, make that noise all little boys make: brrr, brrr, brrr.

I once thought fathers had to teach their sons to be boys. Now I know better. Only someone without a son could think gender is primarily a social construct. Sure, Jack and his six-year-old sister, Ella, were

indistinguishable as babies, when both were fussy, thirsty, genderless perpetual poop machines. But as soon as the first inkling of Jack's personality surfaced, it was obvious that he was all boy.

It's tough to be a boy today. Boys want to run and wrestle and shout. They want to have sword fights and gun battles and mud races. The world, however, wants them to be quiet, to settle down, to stay in their seats, to take Ritalin, to keep their nice shirts clean, to be careful with toys, to be cautious on play structures, to not go so fast, to not go so high, to always be gentle. Don't point your finger and shout "bang!" No standing on the swings. Put that stick down, buster. Basically, the world wants boys to be girls.

The lights come on and the show begins. Soon, colourful trucks with giant wheels are flattening cars, motorcycles are soaring through the air, and four-wheelers are barely avoiding collision as they race in tight circles. Jack is loving it. He is eating it up, like the popcorn he is stuffing into his maw with both hands. The only way he could enjoy this more is if the vehicles turned into robots and began duking it out.

Jack likes fighting. A lot. His love of horseplay, like his love of horsepower, seems innate. He slipped from the womb with a taste for pummelling. We wrestle often, and I have as much fun as he does, though it sometimes gets out of hand. During a recent bout, after receiving my fill of headbutts and groin-stomps, I told Jack to take it easy.

"I will not take it easy," he replied, launching a new assault. "I will take it tricky."

If we aren't roughhousing, we are debating who would win in a fight between so-and-so and what's-his-cape. Could The Incredible Hulk beat up Batman? (Definitely.) Could Megatron beat up Superman? (Unlikely.) The other day Jack posed a tough one: Could a lightsabre defeat an earthquake? After much discussion, we decided that the lightsabre would win. Unless it was a really big earthquake.

At 9:30 p.m., I ask Jack if he wants to leave. "Okay," he says. Two hours of vehicular carnage is enough for any boy, I guess. As we walk out, we pass a boy waving a Monster Spectacular pennant. "I want one of those!" Jack says. We pass a boy wearing a Monster Spectacular shirt. "I want one of those!" We pass a boy holding a toy monster truck. "I want one of those!"

Teaching a boy to ask instead of demand is a challenge. Especially if he wants something with wheels. Jack's manners are improving, though. A few weeks ago, he approached Ella and me and said, "Whoever wants a butt in their face, raise your hand." There was a time when he didn't ask for volunteers.

In front of the arena's exit is a souvenir booth. It has hundreds of toy monster trucks. It might as well have a giant vacuum that sucks money out of my pocket. Thankfully, Jack opts for a small (overpriced) truck instead of a large (overpriced) truck. I buy it and we head home.

The next morning, Father's Day cards await me at breakfast. In hers, Ella says she loves Dad because he helps her with art. Sweet girl. In his, Jack says he loves Dad "because he has a watch." That's my boy.

Roger Collier's column appears every other week. E-mail: rogercollier@hotmail.com